I Dont Want to Cry

Published by admin, on Feb 15 2009, in the categories: Uncategorized

Crying is something that comes naturally to people. Crying can come out of happiness, sadness, nerves etc. People usually try to hide their emotions and so we don`t see a lot of people crying. But between two people that have a tight relationship crying is inevitable. We all make mistakes and we all have problems so there is no one in this world that has not cried once or twice . We don`t want to cry but when something so bad happens tears just start to drop. It`s a general fact that boys don`t cry. Well they do cry, but so rare that it doesn`t count.



They don`t cry not because they don`t feel like crying or they don`t have problems, they just don`t want to cry, they want to be strong. Women on the other hand are more sensitive and they feel everything more intensely that`s why for them crying is common. This doesn`t mean that they are weak, this only means that they are more intouch with their sensitive side. Women can be as strong as any man when they are faced with danger. Women have a lot of secrets so judging them just becasue they cry is not the real essence of them.

There are so many events that can cause a good cry for example happy moments like : a wedding, your wedding day, a proposal, a baby`s birth, when something very bad ends well etc. Sad moments are unfortunately many more . For example the death of somebody dear can cause lots of tears, when you hurt yourself and the pain is really bad, when someone is leaving for a long period, when you and your partner fight, when you break up with someone etc. Love is never pink all the way. There comes a moment in each relationship when something just doesn`t go the right way and so one of the two has to suffer. We all say we don`t want to cry, but we all do it. It`s difficult to not cry when your soul is aching. The worst pain you can have is that of a heartbreak. Nothing compares with a pain that lasts for years. The physical pain goes away and heals but the heart is an open wound.

Crying comes from the souls and if you are not in peace with yourself this can be easily seen in your eyes and your gestures. No one want`s to cry but sometimes it`s for the best. Crying can release tension, can make you feel better , discharged in some way and ready to start again. When boys cry, they do it for the same reasons it`s just that for them it`s embarrassing to cry. Women like a man who`s more in touch with his feelings, it shows sensibility. As a conclusion crying can have good and bad sides but what matters is doing what you feel exactly when you feel it.
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