Crying

Sex and crying are two different things. Sex makes you feel happy and relaxed, makes you feel passion and pleasure and crying is when you are upset and you exteriorize your thoughts through crying. In some weird way crying can happen also when having sex. Crying after orgasm has many causes. A woman can cry because she is happy because she has somebody to love and to give her pleasure. Another reason may be that she is thinking of someone else. Women keep their feelings inside for so long, that when something nice happens , they start crying without a reason and without their will.



For men crying during or after sex is weird, they don`t understand why a woman should cry ,out of the blue, after feeling good. Well, women can cry also because of joy. If there is something so strong that makes them very happy they start crying. It`s like when you succeed at something , when everyone had doubts. Having an orgasm for some can be a new thing and it`s normal to cry. Other women can cry because they feel ashamed and embarrassed. Having sex before marriage is a sin, so the church says, but nowadays, sex is the last thing you should consider a sin. Everyone has sex, and it has come to the idea that it`s best to have sex before having a serious relationship, because sex is an important element in a relationship and if it doesn`t feel right, why stay?

Crying after orgasm is normal. Don`t panic and don`t think that there is something wrong with you. It isn`t! Emotions may have overwhelmed you and the consequence is crying. The best thing a man should do in this situation is to hold their girlfriend and  don`t start asking silly questions.  A woman needs support, when she is down, as well as when she is happy. Men rarely cry, and when it happens, it`s usually because somebody dear has passed away or they have really loved someone. Crying during sex it`s normal, and it shouldn`t make you feel bad for expressing your feelings. If you really liked sex with somebody and you start crying, then this should be taken as a compliment. Crying in bed, does not mean an awful cry, with rivers of tears, no, it means a tear or two gently falling down your cheek.

As a conclusion, relationships are hard to deal with. We never know what our partner thinks sometimes, and we never know or we can`t tell if something is wrong because people just shut themselves in and nobody can enter. An advice is to always say whats on your mind, because things might be interpreted in the wrong way. Maybe crying after orgasm is a result of pain or of hurt feelings. It`s best to say out loud what bothers you, just to be sure that you will never experience the same thing again. Sex should be all about enjoying yourself, so don`t let bad thoughts  come to your mind when you are having sex because, they can ruin a perfectly good night. Let yourself go, and enjoy.